It’s all about the mandrels, of course.
About two months ago, I received an order from a “gentleman” (in quotes on purpose) from Florida for a dozen of our “Almost Indestructable Mandrels”, size 12″ 3/32″ diameter. I promptly sent them out and thought nothing further of the matter.
About a week later, he e-mailed me with a rather nasty e-mail indicated that the mandrels were bent and useless. Within about an hour, I also heard from a long-time customer with the same problem. I went and checked and found that, yes, the mandrels were all bent from the batch that we had previously made about a week prior. I dumped them, made up a new batch, and those were bent as well. The entire box of metal rod was bent.
I admit, I dropped the ball, and neglected to inform my customer in Florida that we had a problem, but when he contacted me a week later, I apologized and let him know what was going on. I had new material on order and we were waiting for its arrival.
The reordered material came in and it too was bent. I called my vendor and they checked their entire stock and all they had was bent — remember that this rod is used for TIG welding, and if it is bent, it really doesn’t matter to the welder…but it does matter to “us” and you.
Long story short, we finally, after 4 weeks, received a good batch of metal, which was promptly cut up yesterday and kilned overnight and shipped out this morning…and this is where the title of this blog comes in.
Seems Mr. “Gentleman” took his complaint to Lampworkers Etc. Now, I’ll be the first to say that it is certainly his right to do so, however, I strongly disagree with anyone that he also has the right to post copies and/or exerpts of e-mails that I send out. In any case, Mr. “Gentleman” is nowhere near a “gentleman”. The language he has used in his e-mails to me is unprofessional to say the least. But I’m not too upset about that. It’s the lies that he has posted on LE to ‘make his case’ that bother me.
1. I haven’t blocked his e-mails. Why would I? In fact, this morning, I sent him at least two, so if I had him blocked, how could I have gotten an e-mail from him to respond to?
2. He is now setting up the possibility that I have somehow “cheated” him by substituting an inferior material in the mandrels I shipped out this morning. What an astonishing claim! He also claimed in an e-mail to me this morning that he will know if I shipped him inferior material because he knows what my material is. Good luck with that!
3. Mr. “Gentleman” could have gotten a full refund, however, he THREW AWAY THE BENT MANDRELS. He asked me what to do with them, and I told him that I would send him replacements, but keep the old ones until he receives the new ones…but he threw them away. How can I issue a refund on a supposedly defective product if they aren’t in my hands?
4. Mr. “Gentleman” is now apparently accusing people that he has had past (bad) dealings with of passing on information to me, supposedly about his wife’s name, that only 4 people in the glass working world know it. Hmmm…better double check that Mr. “Gentleman”. Your wifes name is on your website. It is also on the account she has in her own name at my place of business.
Come now, Mr. “Gentleman”. I have sent you TWO DOZEN mandrels to replace the one dozen that were defective. I think it is time to end the drama and go back to making beads. OK?